Hey y’all, I’m sorry that there are no style posts today. I’m still feeling kinda drained by what’s going on here in the Holy City. It’s uplifting to see the unity, however. If you do nothing else tonight, I just ask one thing of you:

And the following is optional–if you can donate anything at all to help Mother Emanuel AME and the victims of this cruelty please click here

Thank you

–Nikki ❤️


Thank You!

Hey y’all, my blog has seen A LOT of hits today and it’s because of a feature on my hair by the lovely Curly Nikki. I just wanted to take a minute to say thank y’all so much! I appreciate everyone taking time to check out my blog and even e-mail me (which I mustn’t forget to respond to!) and leave such nice comments on the feature itself. 

If you haven’t seen the feature, it can be found here:

I hope y’all enjoyed it and found some encouragement. I’d love it if you’d follow my blog–you can follow by e-mail if you don’t have a WordPress account, by the way. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart for visiting my little space on the Internet and taking even a brief or passing interest in me. It means so very much! 💕

–Nikki ❤️

What I’m Wearing: Ruffle Front Dress

Hey y’all! It’s Thursday, it’s super hot, and the devil is busy; but I digress. I’m going to make this post pretty short and to the point because I’m just tired and worn out emotionally. 

My dress is from Express and this is the first time I’ve worn it as I’ve had it for SEVERAL years. It’s a small and I’m an extra small, so when I got it the straps had a lot of room and it wasn’t really a good fit. I bought it only because there were no XS and I thought they were doing that thing where they screw with the actual sizes making you think you’ve either gone up or down a size when all they’ve done is changed the labels.

Whew! That was a mouthful! The dress is from Express, cropped cardigan from Old Navy (also something I’ve had for years, I think this is my second or third wear), and the same old Michael Kors jelly sandals from Dillard’s.

Well, there you have it. Be kind to each other, love each other, get to know and appreciate what makes us all different and celebrate it. 

–Nikki ❤️

So Many Feelings

Hey y’all. I wish I could be more upbeat, but there are so many thoughts going through my head that it’s hard to focus on my outfit or my hair today. But an OOTD post will follow. The tag line of my blog is ‘a Holy City girl’s guide to looking fab for less.’ A Holy City Girl. 

Charleston, South Carolina is the Holy City and last night we were broken. A terrible, horrible, no good, very bad person came into our home and hurt us. This despicable person walked into what we’d all consider to be one of the safest places ever and took the lives of our mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, grandmothers, grandfathers, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and neighbors.

A five year old laid down and pretended to be dead to avoid murder. I don’t know how that makes you feel, but it hurts me. Despite how I may look, I’m a big old baby–I cry about a lot of things; but going to sleep with the knowledge that 8 were injured and 1 dead and waking up to find out that 9 were actually murdered really broke my heart.

How is this fair? Why are black folks not safe anywhere? Mother Emanuel was not my church, but I’ve been there for a relative’s wake services. That church has been there long before any of the businesses or houses that surround it were a thought. Denmark Veasy’s slave revolt was planned there, Coretta Scott-King lead a march there, now 9 people lost their lives there.

The church is a safe haven–it’s one of the only places that will not turn you away and this person took advantage of these warm hearted people’s kindness. They welcomed him in for prayer and look what he did. He sat in a prayer meeting for an hour before lamenting his hatred of black people and opening fire. I just–I don’t understand why he would do this in a holy place.

‘I don’t understand’ is something I’ve said all day. I don’t think I ever will. Race isn’t something that should be ignored in this country, we should see each other and our differences and get to know more about each other’s cultures. We need to erase the stereotypes that come with race and stop with the colorblind nonsense. It’s nonsense! It’s frustrating. 

I’m tired. I just needed to get that off my chest. I’m not sorry that it strayed away from the subject of this blog. I’m black. I’m a woman. I have a lot to be angry about; but I don’t always dwell on it. I had to let this out. 

Also, I pray to GOD they take that darn confederate flag down from atop the State Building in Columbia. It’s one of the reasons hate crimes happen here! It’s 2015 and we’re still fighting this battle. The confederate flag and a church massacre…starting to feel a lot like we’re revisiting the Civil Rights Era.

–Nikki 😒

What I’m Wearing: Mean Girls Tank

Hey y’all! It’s Wednesday and you know what happens on Wednesdays?! On Wednesday we wear pink! If you know where that quote comes from, you have excellent taste in movies 😉 I didn’t go in to work today because I had some personal things to tend to, but in the midst of it all, I still managed to take some pics for this post.

My Barbie/Mean Girls tank and jeans are from Forever 21; my pink bra cami and pink bow flip flops are from Express. The outfit is tremendously simple, but what takes your outfit to new volumes is your accessories. I kept it simple with my bangles and giant hoops.

My bangles have become my signature. I get complimented all the time on my jewelry picks, but if I’m not wearing my bangles for one day I get asked where they are. Wearing the same piece of jewelry or same style of jewelry daily can bring some refinement to your look. Don’t believe me? Try it for a week and see the difference it makes.

That’s my challenge for the week–well, from tomorrow til next Thursday–wear the same piece or same style of jewelry for a week and no matter what outfit you’re wearing I bet you’ll look like you spent a lot of money on it (whether you did or not!).

–Nikki ❤️